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Hits from the Bong: What Weed, Hormones, ADHD, and My Brain Have in Common

Hits from the Bong: What Weed, Hormones, ADHD, and My Brain Have in Common

It’s a Saturday night in 1993. I’m lying in a field, high on hash, listening to The Doors, and the universe makes perfect sense. Twenty years later, weed sends me into a full-blown existential meltdown in a car park after an Eminem gig. What changed? Spoiler: not just the weed — my hormones, my neurodivergent brain, and my inflamed immune system all RSVP’d to the chaos.”

This isn’t just a tale of stoner misadventure — it’s a deep dive into how neurodivergence, menopause, and autoimmune conditions form the perfect storm of chemical confusion. With personal stories, hard science, and a free symptom decoder you can use right now, this one’s for anyone who’s ever felt betrayed by their own biochemistry.

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The Menopause Manifesto: 7 F*ck-That Tips for Surviving This Hormonal Hellstorm

The Menopause Manifesto: 7 F*ck-That Tips for Surviving This Hormonal Hellstorm

“I tried the herbal teas. I tried deep breathing. I even downloaded an app that told me to imagine I was a leaf floating on a stream. Spoiler: I am not a leaf. I am a peri-menopausal woman on the edge of setting fire to my bra and the dishwasher.

So here’s what I wish someone had told me:
You’re not broken. You’re becoming.
And you don’t have to do it politely.”

From righteous rage to fuzzy-brain hacks and screw-you fashion, this is your unapologetic survival guide to hormonal hell — written by a neurodivergent Gen X therapist who’s done pretending this is fine.

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A Day in the Life: When the NeuroDivergent Therapist Struggles with EVERYTHING

A Day in the Life: When the NeuroDivergent Therapist Struggles with EVERYTHING

Being a therapist doesn’t mean having it all figured out—especially when you’re neurodivergent. Some days, executive dysfunction, sensory overwhelm, and an overactive brain make even the simplest tasks feel impossible. This raw, humorous, and painfully relatable glimpse into a day in the life of a neurodivergent therapist proves that even the helpers need help sometimes.

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Why So Many Gen X Women Are Only Now Realising They’re Neurodivergent

Why So Many Gen X Women Are Only Now Realising They’re Neurodivergent

Why are so many Gen X women only now realizing they’re neurodivergent? For decades, they masked, adapted, and internalized struggles that were never recognized as ADHD, autism, or other forms of neurodivergence. This piece explores the cultural, medical, and social reasons behind the late-diagnosis wave—and what it means to finally understand yourself in midlife.

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Fifty & Unfiltered: Embracing My Neurodivergent Journey

Fifty & Unfiltered: Embracing My Neurodivergent Journey

Fifty & Unfiltered – Embracing My Neurodivergent Journey

Turning fifty as a neurodivergent woman feels like finally taking a deep breath after decades of holding it in. For years, I masked, molded, and tried to fit into a world that wasn’t built for my brain. But now? I’m done shrinking myself.

At fifty, I’ve learned that my intensity, my deep emotions, my scattered-yet-brilliant way of thinking—these aren’t flaws. They are part of who I am, and I refuse to apologize for them anymore.

🔹 What I wish I knew sooner: You are not “too much.” You are not broken. You are not here to meet the expectations of people who don’t understand you.

Here’s to living unfiltered, embracing every neurodivergent quirk, and taking up space unapologetically.

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