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Tricking My Brain Into Focus: Creativity, ADHD, and the Art of Tiny Wins
ADHD brains are full of ideas and no spoons. Here's how I use creativity, humour, and a therapist-made card deck to trick myself into focus.
The Menopause Manifesto: 7 F*ck-That Tips for Surviving This Hormonal Hellstorm
“I tried the herbal teas. I tried deep breathing. I even downloaded an app that told me to imagine I was a leaf floating on a stream. Spoiler: I am not a leaf. I am a peri-menopausal woman on the edge of setting fire to my bra and the dishwasher.
So here’s what I wish someone had told me:
You’re not broken. You’re becoming.
And you don’t have to do it politely.”
From righteous rage to fuzzy-brain hacks and screw-you fashion, this is your unapologetic survival guide to hormonal hell — written by a neurodivergent Gen X therapist who’s done pretending this is fine.
Persona, Masking, and Ziggy Stardust: Why Jungian Archetypes Spoke to My Neurodivergent Soul
I’ve worn more masks than I can count—some sparkly, some stitched together from other people’s expectations. For years, I didn’t even know I was masking. I just knew I felt like an outsider in my own life.
When I discovered I was neurodivergent, everything clicked. But it wasn’t until I stumbled across Jungian psychology—and his idea of the Persona—that I truly began to understand the performance I’d been living. And why I’d been so drawn to people like David Bowie, who turned shifting identity into art.
This is a story about archetypes, unmasking, and finding yourself in the parts you were taught to hide.
The Sacred Shape of Thought: How I Survive Mental Chaos With Geometry, Bees, and Jung
Sacred geometry, bumblebees, memory spirals, and the unbearable swirl of being a neurodivergent person in a collapsing world. This is a story about finding order inside the mess.
Rewriting Your Own Fairy Tale: What Jung, Bettelheim, and Neurodivergence Teach Us About Ourselves
Rewriting Your Own Fairy Tale – How Stories Shape Our Psychology
Ever felt like you were the outsider in your own story—the odd one out, the one who didn’t fit the mold? Fairy tales have a way of mirroring our inner struggles, and for neurodivergent, creative minds, they often feel strangely personal.
Psychologists like Jung and Bettelheim believed that fairy tales aren’t just stories; they’re psychological maps, filled with symbols of transformation, survival, and self-discovery. What if we could use these stories not just to escape, but to rewrite our own narratives?
🔹 Try This: If your life were a fairy tale, which archetype would you be? The lost wanderer? The hidden genius? The trickster? What if you’re actually the hero who just hasn’t reached the final chapter yet?
Let’s explore how fairy tales can help us reshape the way we see ourselves, our struggles, and our potential for transformation. ✨📖
The ‘Cool Parent’ Guide to Understanding Teen Lingo (Without Sounding Cringe)
Ever tried to decode your teen’s latest slang and ended up feeling cringe? You’re not alone. This guide breaks down the mystifying world of teen lingo—helping you understand what they’re actually saying (without embarrassing yourself in the process). Whether you want to build better communication or just avoid misusing “rizz,” this is your no-nonsense, slightly humorous survival guide to talking with Gen Z.
Metaphorical Cards: A Psychotherapist’s Guide to Self-Discovery, Relationships, and the Power of Visual Thinking
Sometimes, the best way to understand ourselves isn’t through direct answers—it’s through symbols, metaphors, and imagery. Metaphorical cards are a powerful therapeutic tool that helps unlock emotions, navigate relationships, and explore the subconscious. This guide dives into how therapists, coaches, and individuals can use these cards for self-discovery, personal growth, and deep emotional insight.
How to Begin Inner Child Healing — 10 Signs Your Inner Child is Calling Out To You
Ever feel like there's a younger version of you still carrying old wounds? That’s your inner child, whispering for attention. This guide explores 10 key signs your inner child needs healing, from emotional triggers to patterns of self-sabotage. Learn how to reconnect with your past self, foster deep self-compassion, and begin the journey toward emotional healing.
Exploring Color Therapy – A Psychotherapist’s Perspective
Exploring Color Therapy – A Psychotherapist’s Perspective
Ever noticed how certain colors instantly shift your mood? The warmth of golden yellows, the calming embrace of soft blues—color is more than just aesthetics; it’s a powerful psychological tool.
As a psychotherapist, I’ve seen firsthand how color therapy can reduce stress, enhance emotional well-being, and even support healing. Whether it’s using red to boost motivation or green to create balance, color speaks to our subconscious in ways words often can’t.
🔹 Try This: Pay attention to the colors you surround yourself with. What emotions do they bring up? Could a simple color shift change your mood today?
Let’s dive into the science, symbolism, and psychology behind color therapy—and how you can use it to support your mental wellness. 🎨✨
The Power of Synchronicity: How Meaningful Coincidences Can Transform Your Life
The Power of Synchronicity – How Meaningful Coincidences Can Transform Your Life
Have you ever been thinking about someone—only for them to call moments later? Or stumbled across the exact piece of advice you needed at the right time? These aren’t just random events; they might be synchronicities—meaningful coincidences that connect us to something deeper.
🔍 Try This: Next time a strange “coincidence” happens, pause. Ask yourself: What is this moment trying to tell me? The universe might just be nudging you toward a new insight or direction.
Curious about how synchronicity can guide your creativity and personal growth? Let’s explore the hidden patterns shaping your life. ✨🔮
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